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*Starred Review* This straight-talking book about bringing up boys to be responsible and respectful comes from Harvard child psychologist Wegner, who fills pages with accessible explanations about developmental stages, emotional intelligence, gender, identity, and other factors that shape developing minds. But the best parts of the book are when Wegner shares stories about her own kids. Whether being called out for sex discrimination by one son for not allowing him to get his ear pierced (after she'd encouraged his little sister to do so), or having her other son happily show her a Minecraft village made completely out of penises, Wegner comes across as resourceful and practical, making her advice all the more palatable as she discusses topics like toxic masculinity and media messaging. She addresses readers directly, referring to you and your son. She sorts her counsel according to boys' age, and includes steps, scenarios, exercises, and conversation starters. There's a Sex Talk Cheat Sheet for parents and references to an online Reading Group Guide. Wegner acknowledges that it's difficult to raise feminist boys when they're constantly barraged by misogynistic messages. This timely manual will help parents understand what it takes to model good behavior and set a positive example. Copyright 2021 Booklist Reviews.